What happens when a somatic sex educator who vociferously professes the benefits of a regular mindful masturbation practice gets out of practice himself?

I recently did the 12 day Wild Rose Detox Cleanse.  It was a very productive time for cleaning every corner of the p...

I play with myself erotically almost every day.  I say almost because I check in with my body first.  Sometimes my body wants a rest.  Sometimes my body is tired.  I have learned to listen to and respect my body’s messages.  Cultivating that skill, which to me essentia...

May was Masturbation Month.  That inspired many articles about the joys of masturbation.

Unfortunately, it also provided a platform for the dissemination of false information about the male body’s capacity to feel and experience pleasure.

A male full body orgasm and ejac...

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I recently read a post about trusting a new practitioner because you were referred to them by someone whom you trust

Something didn't sit well with me about that but I wasn't quite sure why

I let it simmer for a while and this is what I came up with

Referrals are a...

There are many roads to choose in life.  Some of them are much more joyful than others. 

I was an attorney for over 30 years.  Not the most joyful road to take.  And, my body knew it. 

It told me in all sorts of ways, on many days, for many years.  I had f...

Touch is so important

It is a basic human need

But unwanted touch pervades our society

Not necessarily a full on assault, but even thinking you were supposed to want to, when you just didn’t know how to say no, or didn’t think you should, or believed that 'he or she won’t...