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Somatic Erotic Embodiment

Somatic Erotic Embodiment sessions can be many things.  It can be the sex education you never received. 

It can be working with and learning your boundaries - your yes's, your no's and your maybe's. 

What do those actually feel like in your body? 

It can be consciously working with breath, sound, movement and touch, to connect to and listen to your body.  It can be increasing your body's capacity to feel pleasure.  It can be learning to stimulate and use your erotic energy for personal growth and healing.  It can be using focused breathwork to trance out into altered states of consciousness.  It can be finally healing from the shame you feel about your sexual desires, fantasies or curiosities.  It can be consciously stepping out from behind the trauma, pain and isolation caused by non-consensual touch, sexual assault, or emotional, physical or sexual abuse.

Beginning to focus on giving yourself pleasure, prioritizing pleasure in your life,

leads to making better decisions, which brings access to a  more joyful life.

Questions, Issues or Curiosities that may be addressed in a Somatic Erotic Embodiment session include, but are not limited to: 

erectile dysfunction, unplanned ejaculations, male full body orgasm, intimacy, performance anxiety, body image,

any type of trauma (not just sexual trauma), exploring pleasure, issues around pornography, scar tissue remediation,

questions about circumcision, or anal and prostate massage for health and pleasure.


Now Hosting Private Retreats on Southern Vancouver Island, BC, Canada

Stay in a quaint one bedroom country cottage on 2 acres of private forested land

Co-Create your own multi-day exploratory sessions (two or more nights)

Start the day with yoga and communal self pleasuring and then move into your own private somatic erotic embodiment session with Pono

You could have one two or three sessions a day

You could take the afternoon off to go for a hike

or have private time in nature

Take time for yourself

Take care of yourself

Reset your nervous system in nature with focused touch movement and

conscious breath work

Explore sensation in your body

Explore expanding your body’s capacity for pleasure

We will c0-create a container within which to work

For more information or to explore how this might enhance your life, email to Pono

I’d be happy to schedule a complementary Zoom call to meet and discuss

how I might serve you!



Tap into and Listen to your Body's Innate Wisdom

Work Consciously to Heal from Shame, Abuse, Guilt or Assault

Fully Experience Pleasure in your Body and Joy in your Life

Explore Fantasy, Explore Sensation, Explore You



All group workshops and retreats have been postponed due to COVID-19.

I am seeing clients one-on-one via Skype or Zoom. 


I am also hosting private retreats for individuals or couples in Cobble Hill, BC.  These explorations are co-created and tailor made for you.  Private retreats can be from one night to multiple nights, with options including daily yoga, communal self-pleasuring, and individual somatic erotic embodiment sessions focused on you, your pleasure, your arousal and your curiosities. 

For more information, e-mail to Pono.


Pono serves clients in erotic
self-discovery in individual Somatic Erotic Embodiment sessions and at private retreats
for individuals or couples,
in Cobble Hill,
(about 45 minutes from Victoria),
BC, Canada.
Private sessions are also available via Zoom or Skype, including
Self-Pleasuring Coaching
& Witnessing sessions.
If you have any questions,
please contact Pono.

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